Women have been taught that our anger is dangerous. From the time we were little, we got the message loud and clear.... good girls donât yell. They donât slam doors.They donât get âtoo emotional.â Anger was painted as ugly, shameful, even unlovable. So we buried it.We swallowed the lump in our throat.We clenched our jaw and forced the smile.We carried it inside until it carved deep grooves of resentment, exhaustion, and disconnect. But hereâs the thing no one told us: anger is f**king holy....
6 days ago â˘Â 1 min read
Have you ever looked back on a relationship (romantic or otherwise) and thought: I saw the red flags. I knew better. Why didnât I listen? Thatâs the betrayal we donât talk about. Not the betrayal of someone else breaking your trust, but the ache of realizing you betrayed yourself. You silenced your gut. You hid the parts of you that felt âtoo much.â You kept showing up as the watered-down version of yourself just to keep the connection alive. When we mute our instincts, we never get to find...
10 days ago â˘Â 1 min read
Hey boo, If Iâve learned anything, itâs that life has a way of pulling the rug out from under us when we least expect it. People leave. Plans change. Loss cracks us wide open in ways we never thought weâd survive. And in those moments, itâs easy to feel powerless. To slip into the âvictimâ roleâasking why me? or wondering if weâll ever feel whole again. Iâve been there too. But hereâs the shift that changes everything: we donât have to stay there. We can decide that even in our darkest...
13 days ago â˘Â 1 min read
Hey friend, This weekâs reflection comes straight from my Sugg-Jess-tion Box: a place where you get to toss in your burning questions, messy thoughts, or the things you wish someone would just talk about already. The question was this: âIs it really possible to hold both heartbreak and healing at the same time?â Hereâs the truth: grief and healing donât happen in neat, clean stages. You donât finish heartbreak and then move on to healing. Most days, youâre holding both at once. One hand...
24 days ago â˘Â 1 min read
Thereâs a version of you thatâs been buried under years of playing nice. Of keeping the peace. Of making yourself smaller just to fit into rooms that couldnât hold you. You bit your tongue to avoid tension. You quieted your brilliance to make others more comfortable. You told yourself that maybe less of you would be easier to love. But the truth? They still left. Or they stayed and made you question your worth. So hereâs your permission slip to stop. Stop diluting your magic.Stop bending to...
27 days ago â˘Â 1 min read
This is for the woman whoâs done being the âgood girlâ The one who bites her tongue, makes herself small, and swallows the truth just to keep the peace. If youâre honest⌠you know thatâs you. Youâve been standing on this side of the bridge your whole damn life, looking at the woman you could be on the other side.The one who speaks her mind without flinching.Who says ânoâ without the apology.Who takes up every inch of space sheâs earned. That bridge? Itâs not going to cross itself.And every...
about 1 month ago â˘Â 1 min read
Letâs talk about the lie. The one most of us were sold before we even knew how to listen to our bodies.Be nice. Be agreeable. Keep the peace.Be good, even if it costs you yourself. I remember TOO many moments in my life where I chose being liked over being honest.My gut said no.My mouth said, âSure, whatever you need.âAnd my body? Itâs still remembering.... Thatâs what people-pleasing does. It makes you betray your own truth in the name of being âgood.â But hereâs the thing: What if the truth...
about 1 month ago â˘Â 1 min read
Hey Reader You know those questions that swirl in your head at 2AM? The ones youâre afraid to ask out loud? The ones that sound like⌠âHow do I stop people-pleasing without losing everyone I care about?â âWhat if I donât want to be the strong one anymore?â âAm I crazy for wanting more when everything looks fine?â Yeah. Those. Well, 'Sugg-Jess-tions' has entered the chat, my new weekly advice series where I answer your questions with raw truth, a little sass, and a lot of heart. Hereâs how it...
about 2 months ago â˘Â 1 min read
Iâve been holding Sacred Circle for almost four years now. Guiding, grounding, weaving women together in truth and tenderness. And while I always share in Circle, it's a different thing entirely when you're the one holding the container. Youâre attuned to every breath in the room.Listening for what isnât said.Making sure each woman feels seen, safe, supported.Tending the timing. Managing the energy.Thereâs a sacred responsibility in that, and itâs one I hold with deep reverence. But this...
about 2 months ago â˘Â 2 min read