Permission to take up space: granted.


This is for the woman who’s done being the “good girl”

The one who bites her tongue, makes herself small, and swallows the truth just to keep the peace.

If you’re honest… you know that’s you.

You’ve been standing on this side of the bridge your whole damn life, looking at the woman you could be on the other side.
The one who speaks her mind without flinching.
Who says “no” without the apology.
Who takes up every inch of space she’s earned.

That bridge? It’s not going to cross itself.​
And every day you wait, the boards rot a little more under your feet.

The other side isn’t for the woman who waits.
It’s for the one who moves.

If you’ve been waiting for a sign, this is it.
Your bridge is ready.
& So am I.

Will I see you on the other side?

Jess Leone

Not your typical love-and-light bullsh*t. Just my subtle (okayyyy, sometimes NOT-so-subtle 😘) way of calling you OUT & calling you BACK to yourself, all while reminding you you're not alone in any of this.

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