Not your typical love-and-light bullsh*t. Just my subtle (okayyyy, sometimes NOT-so-subtle 😘) way of calling you OUT & calling you BACK to yourself, all while reminding you you're not alone in any of this.
The Lie We Were Sold
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Let’s talk about the lie. The one most of us were sold before we even knew how to listen to our bodies. I remember TOO many moments in my life where I chose being liked over being honest. That’s what people-pleasing does. It makes you betray your own truth in the name of being “good.” But here’s the thing: What if the truth you’re avoiding is the very thing that could set you free? If you listened to this weeks episode, you know we chatted about what happens when you start to build a relationship with the things that you fear—you create the kind of self-trust that changes everything. Real healing? It’s rarely soft at first. So I want to ask you: What has people-pleasing cost you? P.S.: From Victim to Villain is BACK for round 4, and I'm hosting it in-person AND virtually. Wanna take a peak? 👀 P.P.S: Happy 8/8! Go manifest your f*king DREAMMMMSS, baby! X, |
Jess Leone
Not your typical love-and-light bullsh*t. Just my subtle (okayyyy, sometimes NOT-so-subtle 😘) way of calling you OUT & calling you BACK to yourself, all while reminding you you're not alone in any of this.
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