Got a question? I’ve got a 'Sugg-Jess-tion'...

Published about 1 month ago • 1 min read

Hey Reader

You know those questions that swirl in your head at 2AM? The ones you’re afraid to ask out loud? The ones that sound like…

“How do I stop people-pleasing without losing everyone I care about?”
“What if I don’t want to be the strong one anymore?”
“Am I crazy for wanting more when everything looks fine?”

Yeah. Those.

Well, 'Sugg-Jess-tions' has entered the chat, my new weekly advice series where I answer your questions with raw truth, a little sass, and a lot of heart.

Here’s how it works:
You submit your question (You will always remain anonymously) and each week I’ll choose one to unpack. You might hear it answered on the podcast or find it pop up on my socials, but I will always respond with a weekly newsletter!

Try it out here!

Here’s the real magic: Your question isn’t just for you.
It’s a mirror. A lifeline for someone else who’s been too afraid to ask the very same thing.

When you share what’s on your heart, you give someone else permission to say, “Wait… me too.”

You break the silence.
You soften the shame.
You remind people they’re not alone in their mess, their wondering, their healing.

More than just "advice", I am truly looking to deepen our community through brave honesty. So whether you’re asking about boundaries, burnout, people-pleasing, grief, body image, intuition, or figuring out who the hell you are now that everything’s shifted… bring it.

Nothing is too weird, too heavy, or too small. And let’s normalize the hard stuff together.

Much Love,
Jess

Advice from someone who’s felt it, fumbled it, and found her way through.

Submit your question!

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