Hey Reader Letâs get straight to it: When you start doing whatâs best for yourself, you're going to piss people off. Do it anyway. Choosing yourself is going to rattle some cages. Youâll make decisions that feel damn good for your nervous systemâbut inconvenient for someone elseâs expectations. And guess what? Thatâs not your problem. Do it anyway. Youâre not here to be palatable. Youâre here to take up space, to set the tone, and to live like you mean it. Every time you choose what aligns for youâyour energy, your time, your truthâyou take one more step toward the life that actually feels like yours. Yeah, it might make some people uncomfortable. But not choosing yourself? Thatâll make you miserable. Do. It. Anyway. Love, |
Not your typical love-and-light bullsh*t. Just my subtle (okayyyy, sometimes NOT-so-subtle đ) way of calling you OUT & calling you BACK to yourself, all while reminding you you're not alone in any of this.
Hey friend, This weekâs reflection comes straight from my Sugg-Jess-tion Box: a place where you get to toss in your burning questions, messy thoughts, or the things you wish someone would just talk about already. The question was this: âIs it really possible to hold both heartbreak and healing at the same time?â Hereâs the truth: grief and healing donât happen in neat, clean stages. You donât finish heartbreak and then move on to healing. Most days, youâre holding both at once. One hand...
Thereâs a version of you thatâs been buried under years of playing nice. Of keeping the peace. Of making yourself smaller just to fit into rooms that couldnât hold you. You bit your tongue to avoid tension. You quieted your brilliance to make others more comfortable. You told yourself that maybe less of you would be easier to love. But the truth? They still left. Or they stayed and made you question your worth. So hereâs your permission slip to stop. Stop diluting your magic.Stop bending to...
This is for the woman whoâs done being the âgood girlâ The one who bites her tongue, makes herself small, and swallows the truth just to keep the peace. If youâre honest⌠you know thatâs you. Youâve been standing on this side of the bridge your whole damn life, looking at the woman you could be on the other side.The one who speaks her mind without flinching.Who says ânoâ without the apology.Who takes up every inch of space sheâs earned. That bridge? Itâs not going to cross itself.And every...